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Judith Van Atta Roenke. I am a Navy Submariner wife. Triathlete. I am the proud mommy of Henry the Fifth and Peter Tristum. Welcome to my Blog...
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Saturday, January 03, 2015

New shoes and pretty fingernails

We had an event for Submariners in the DC area. It was so fun meeting up with old friends and meeting new ones.
I have lost about 25 pounds so far, so I fit in a dress I already own. I REALLY wanted to buy a new one, but it will be too big by next fall, so I stayed with what I had.  That did not stop me from buying new shoes!


One of the best parts of the evening was chatting with some other wives and re-discovering the similarities in having a Submariner for a husband. The work ethic is one of the things that attracted me to my husband.

After the social, hubs and I went out for a late dinner at a Thai restaurant near the Navy Yard. Yummy eggplant and chicken dish. Oh, and a cocktail of champagne, pineapple juice, and grenadine. So yum!

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

25 Things

I was tagged three times on Facebook! Here is my 25 Things list:

1. My 16 month old son was born with Tetralogy of Fallot, had open heart surgery at 4 months old, and now has a pacemaker. Luckily, it looks like he doesn't need his pacemaker anymore! We find out more in June. I am madly in love with my baby.

2. I swam on a relay across the Catalina Channel with teammates from Pomona College. We got a world record for the fastest womens team to cross. Our record is still on the website Catalina Channel Swimming Federation.

3. I was co-captain of my college swim team Junior and Senior year and waterpolo my Senior year.

4. I watch incredibly too much television. I have MSNBC on constantly and in the evenings we have a few shows we watch regularly. BSG, The Office, Burn Notice, Heros, 24, LOST, plus occasional other shows.

5. I found out that I love to cook after I graduated from college. I got a subscription to Bon Apetit and kept it going for 10 years. A few months ago I freecycled the whole collection to a woman who was thrilled to get them. I find that I use the internet for recipes rather than going back to old magazines.

6. I lived in NYC for 2 years working as an assistant coach at Columbia University and working a variety of Physical Therapy Aide jobs all over Manhatten. I think everyone should live in NYC for a couple of years in their 20's. The experience formed who I am today.

7. I gained over 60 pounds since college. No, it isn't all baby weight.

8. I have had clinical depression probably since I was about 12 years old. I didn't get true treatment until after graduate school. I sought treatment in college, but they sent me to a student who said, "Exercise helps depression." Those of you who swam with me will understand how that was not going to help as I already exercised an insane amount. If I ever become a millionaire, my Pomona College donation will be earmarked for a decent mental health clinic.
I have been on most of the medications on the market, and am still trying to find the best mix. I am currently seeking information on the hormonal aspects of depression and PMDD to find a safer way to control depression during pregnancy.

9. I desperately want to get pregnant again. My doctors want me to wait until the depression is better controlled. I want to be totally off of medication for my next pregnancy. My goals and their goals don't match.

10. I married the most incredible man. He is handsome, a genius, understanding, affectionate. He puts up with my crazy days. He keeps the house clean- that's the Navy in him. He is an incredible father to our son. Henry 5 absolutely adores him. A civilian worker thought he was out of earshot when she commented that he makes the new uniform look good. She was right.

11. I got married in front of the Beluga Whales at the Mystic Aquarium in Mystic, CT.

12. I hated living in Hawaii. (But that might be the depression talking. I am willing to try it again.)

13. I would love to live in Japan. But if we move there, I would spend all of our money on fabric.

14. I love being a Navy wife. I am so proud of my husband and how hard he works.

15. When I was 12 I thought I wanted to be a physical therapist. Now I am. I prefer working with Traumatic Brain Injury, Stroke and Spinal Cord Injury patients in Acute Care hospitals.

16. I am currently a stay at home mom. We thought I would return to work reasonably soon after giving birth, until we found out about Henry's ToF. Then I thought I would go back to work a couple months after his surgery. The delay is my need to catch up on CEUs.

17. I love to sew. I graduated from Pomona with a degree in Neuroscience and for graduation my mom gave me a sewing machine. I still have the same one and use it to make things for the baby and friends.

18. I have done several triathlons and want to get back into it for the approaching season. I did a half Ironman about 4 years ago. I didn't train adequately. I was the first out of the water in my age group. I was second to last in the entire field to finish. It was horribly grueling. The bike portion was so painful that I hoped I would get hit by a car so that I could stop racing without shame. I also had to pee really bad- so bad that I tried to pee my bike shorts while riding my bike- I knew if I got off I wouldn't be able to get back on. It didn't work- I found a port-a-jon by a nuclear power plant. After several years to get over the trauma, I have the urge to train properly and do another one. My husband says he never wants me to do another one because it was so painful to watch.

19. I joined a work out group at the YMCA.

20. I get so mad when smokers throw their butts out the car window that I sometimes give them the finger.

21. I drive too fast.

22. I want to go into my parent's basement and freecycle most of it.

23. I love having computers and electronics, but get really irritated when they are too slow or break.

24. I have travelled in Asia to Viet Nam (to visit Amanda), Korea and the DMZ, Japan, Thailand, Hong Kong, and the Pacific Islands Guam and Saipan. If we have to move to Guam I am starting a dog farm to take care of all the strays. I Viet Nam I was attacked in the Binh Thanh market by a 100 year old pint sized little lady because she wanted me to buy a diet coke from her. A few days later I realized what she wanted was the $50 she stole from me. The best pastry I have ever eaten was in Viet Nam. In Thailand I ate a cricket. I have never been to Europe.

25. I can't get over how much I love my baby. He is the light of my life.

Monday, January 12, 2009

First Haircut

Daddy went first.




His little curls are all gone. I saved a few.

Saturday, November 01, 2008

First Pizza. Mandy the OT would be so proud!At the Pumpkin Patch




Friday, October 24, 2008

A Gift from Poland


One of the gifts Henry brought back from Poland. A stylish bag of sugar. He knows me so well.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Happy 1st Birthday to Henry the Fifth

Vanilla and chai cupcakes. Buttercream frosting hand made by my SIL.


Grandpa did a great magic show for everyone.

Pin the nose on the lion.


We gave him a new chomp and clack for walking with.


Wearing his new party hat and and bib. I made a matching burp with 'one' spelled out.

Henry's first cupcake was a hit.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Apples on a New York Drive


Returning from a visit with my former swimming coach, Hubby and I decided to program the garmin to take us back without highways or tool roads in order to stay on country roads. We had wanted to go apple picking and, as fate would have it, happened upon an orchard.
I am on a dial up connection at the in-laws, so more on this and flickr later.


Tuesday, August 19, 2008

extra light days

him: Holy crap, are these for extra light days? They're tiny! (on discovering a portable pantyliner unearthed by the baby dumping my purse.)

me: laughing

him: What?! The make other ones that are like this thick. (his hand holding an imaginary hospital grade maxi) This thing is like a microchip.

me: laughing harder

him: It's like a band-aide!

Sunday, August 10, 2008

You think I'm all cute watching you roll coins...


...but, really, I'm using you as leverage to squeeze out a massive, noxious sweet-potato turd have a bowel movement...






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...that mommy gets to change.

Education


Henry the Fifth learns to be a super-fantastic hubby from his super-fantastic daddy.




While mommy is still in her PJs after sleeping in.
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Sunday, January 27, 2008

quote from husband

"i went to Michaels, that place is awesome"


January 2008

Wednesday, November 08, 2006

priorities

me: So, did you hear Donald Rumsfeld resigned?

hubby: No, he did?

me: Yah, I almost called you but I figured everyone at work would be talking about it.....
Oh, Rumsfeld resigned and Brittany Spears is getting divorced.

hubby: Yeah, I heard that.

me: You heard about Brittany and not Rumsfeld?

I guess hubby's job is secure.

Monday, February 20, 2006

Henry Underway


These are excerpts from emails to and about Henry during his short underways...


Hi – (to the in-laws)

Just writing to let you all know Henry was able to call from the boat the other night. He actually called twice, but the first call was:

Hello hello?

Henry? Hello?

Hello hello?

The second call was much clearer. Things seem to be going well on the boat. He was in good and said they got some things done that they needed to do. That’s good because that means they weren’t spending time fixing broken stuff, they actually made some progress.

Mike waits for Henry by the window each night.

Hi – (to Henry)

Went to the dog beach at Hickman today. The tide was low so we waded out past the banyan trees. I followed Mike all over the area. I wore my new wading shoes and carried a net, but I didn’t catch anything. Mike swam a little bit when the water got deep. We were there like 2 hours or more. Mike was heading back to the car when another dog showed up, so he took off thru the water back to the sand bar to play.

I had to pee so I backed into a banyan tree and squatted and peed in the water. Are you embarrassed? You married a gross girl.

Hi – (to Henry)

I broke down and ordered Papa Johns yesterday. This morning, I heard noise in the kitchen and when I went to check it out, Mike was carrying the garlic butter cup to his bed to open and drink. I am anticipating a greasy poop later today. Yippy!!!

I am off to recycle now. See you soon.

Hi - Mike is doing well. He found a Papa Johns box (that I stupidly set on the floor next to the trash can) and drank the cup of garlic butter, but he seems to have survived the fake butter influx.

(Sometimes I forget what I already wrote...)

Saturday, February 18, 2006

Kissing in the Dark, Big Island, Hawaii


This is my husband and I on the Big Island in the Thurstan Lava Tubes. We turned off our flashlights so it was pitch black. I set my camera on the ledge made by the lava and programmed it to auto.